1.0 INTRODUCTION
This task gives focus on essay writing based
on the theme that given. I have choose an article about “Bullying In School”
that include on theme of social issues. There
are the three articles that I have choose from internet about Bullying In
School that include causes of bullying in school, effects of bullying in school
and ways to reduce bullying in school.
2.0 ARTICLE ON TOPICS
2.1 CAUSES
OF BULLYING IN SCHOOL
Bullying in schools
Worried about going back to school?
Worried about school bullying? Intimidation, threats, taunting, violence?
Recently there's been much increased
awareness of bullying in schools and whilst it may appear that bullying is on
the increase, I suspect there's been little change in the amount of bullying
that goes on in school. What has changed is that society is at last beginning
to recognise just how vile bullying is and that the myths and misperceptions
are just that - myths and misperceptions. Those who
perpetuate these myths are choosing to be part of the problem, not the
solution.
It seems that children bully for a
variety of reasons and when dealing with child bullying it's essential to
identify who is the bully at the centre of the violence - there's usually one
person who's the gang leader - and the reasons for bullying which include:
- frustration - a child is impaired in some way and is frustrated and
resentful because the source of their difficulty has not been identified -
problems can include deafness, dyslexia, autism, allergy, being
left-handed, undiagnosed PTSD or some unidentified learning difficulty -
nevertheless the child is expected to perform at the level required by the
school and no attempt is made to identify the source of the frustration
- the child is being bullied, the responsible adults have repeatedly
failed in their duty of care, so the child slowly and reluctantly starts
to exhibit aggressive behaviours because that's the only way to survive in
this bullying-entrenched climate
- poor or no role model - the child has no role model at home, or a
poor role model for one or both parents and has never had the opportunity
to learn behaviour skills
- abuse at home - the child is being abused and is expressing their
anger through bullying
- desire for attention - children who do not get attention or
emotional support at home may try to get noticed even in negative ways. to
do this, they may try to become the center of attention by humiliating
someone else.
- influence of media - television shows, video games,
websites and popular music all have facets that encourage and even praise
violent behavior as a means to assert oneself. Taken out of context, a
troubled child may use these examples as ways of being aggressive to gain
popularity with peers.
- cycle of abuse -
some children are only repeating behaviors they witness at home.
They may see one parent bullied by the other or may be the victims of
bullying themselves by older siblings.
- gang membership -
In small towns as well as big cities, children are finding
acceptance through gang membership. This is especially true of youth who
live in families with either one parent or an extended family member.
Gangs often use threats and intimidation to initiate new recruits and
continue to use these methods to deal with opposing gangs. These tactics
inevitably are transferred to the school environment.
- desire for control -
there are many children who live in undesirable family situations or who find themselves in
abusive situations. in an attempt to exert some kind of control of their
life, they will try to manipulate others even if they have to use threats
and taunts.
- neglect at home - similar to abuse as the child's emotional and
behavioural development is being retarded
- undue influence - the child has fallen in with the wrong crowd
- conduct disorder - the child has a conduct disorder, the precursor to
antisocial, psychopathic or other personality disorder
Whilst much of this web site on
workplace bullying is relevant to child bullying and school bullying, there is
one significant difference. A child is still in their formative years, and if a
child is exhibiting bullying behaviours, then if you intercede in the right
way, many child bullies - with the exception of those with a conduct disorder -
can be helped to learn better ways of behaving and interacting with other
children. At present, this is not possible with adult serial bullies, especially
the sociopathic ones.
Psychopaths comprise at least 1% of society and that's only the ones who have
been identified. When socialised psychopaths are counted, the percentage could
be 2-3%. Psychopathic personality is a lifelong condition and the only thing
mental health professionals are agreed on is that it is not caused by bad
parenting. For more information on psychopathic personality read The Mask of Sanity by Hervey
Cleckly and Without Conscience by Robert Hare.
All psychopaths have been through school. Society has no solutions for dealing
with psychopaths. [More on psychopaths]
There are very few programmes that will actively
help an aggressive child learn to deal with their aggression. Many schools, under pressure of budgets, lack of time,
overburdened with work (especially tick sheets and tests), lack of leadership,
lack of local education authority support, lack of government support, and
rising class sizes [click here for the real
picture of education today], either ignore the problem (in which case it gets
worse), punish the bully (in which case it gets worse), punish the target of
bullying when they stand up for themselves (in which case it gets worse), or
expel the bullying pupil (in which case the problem is passed to someone else).
All of these are short-term, short-sighted non-solutions which do not address
the cause of the problem, which in all cases will get worse.
It can result in the death of a pupil, either from suicide (at least 16
children commit suicide in the UK each
year because they are being bullied at school and those in authority are
failing to deal with it), or from violence, as in the cases of Damilola Taylor in Peckham,
South London and Josh Belluardo in Canton,
Cherokee County, Georgia, USA.
When Neil Marr and I were writing our
book Bullycide: death at playtime we discovered
that if bullying is rife in the playground then it’s likely to be rife in the
staffroom, and vice-versa. Teachers are the largest group of enquirers to Bully OnLine and in most
cases the identified serial bully is the head teacher with one of the behaviour
profiles at workbully/serial.htm. A teacher or
principal who is bullying members of staff is likely to be bullying the pupils
also. In these cases the good teachers - the majority - have become
disempowered and disenfranchised. The bullying is designed to try and hide the
fact that the principal lacks integrity, maturity and thus, significantly, does
not have control of discipline but is now embarking on a campaign to vilify the
bullied child and their family in order to divert attention away from his or
her lack of competence and to evade liability and personal accountability.
Increasingly in the UK, it seems, head teachers are being appointed on the
basis of their willingness to simply obey orders and comply with meeting
government targets and regardless of their lack of interpersonal skills or
educational ability. Such heads often have a high intelligence but a low
emotional intelligence (EQ) - and at secondary school level and above it seems
that most head teachers and principals share the same funny handshake.
Bullying is the general term applied to
a pattern of behaviour whereby one person with a lot of internal anger,
resentment and aggression and lacking interpersonal skills chooses to displace
their aggression onto another person, chosen for their vulnerability with
respect to the bully, using tactics of constant criticism, nit-picking,
exclusion, isolation, teasing etc with verbal, psychological, emotional and
(especially with children) physical violence. When called to account, the
bullying child will typically exhibit the denial - counterattack -
feigning victimhood response to evade accountability, often with
success. Child bullies are adept at manipulating the perceptions of adults,
especially adults who are inexperienced or who have a low EQ.
If a child is exhibiting bullying
behaviour, the questions to ask are "why does this child have a lot of
internal aggression?" and "why does this child need to displace their
internal aggression onto other children?", and "why has this child
not learned how to interact with other children in a non-violent manner?".
See my page on abuse for
clues.
I believe a school should create an environment
whereby children understand from the moment they start school that bullying,
aggression and violence are not acceptable. It is
often the absence of such an ethos that potential bullies perceive as
acceptance of their aggressive behaviour. A policy is a start, but it must be
more than just words on paper, it has to be a proactive policy, not just
a rule book which is dusted down in the head's study after aggression has
resulted in injury. Any anti-bullying policy or anti-bullying advice which
fails to mention of accountability for the bully and for the responsible adults
who are failing in their duty of care is likely to meet with at best limited
success.
Positive behaviour should be part of the national
curriculum, but unfortunately it is not a subject that produces statistical
data that the government can use to show how wonderful its education policy is.
Behavioural skills, assertiveness, parenting skills, financial skills, business
skills, motivational skills, success skills - key skills for a successful life
and career - are conspicuously absent from the national curriculum. I also
believe that a whole-school policy should also support both parties. The target
is taught assertiveness skills (this will not solve a bullying problem but
enables a child to learn emotional and verbal self-defence), whilst the bully is
taught how to deal with their aggression and how to interact in a socially
responsible manner with other children.
I believe physical punishment is inappropriate, for
it reinforces the bullying child's view that violence is an appropriate
solution to any problem - if you don't like what someone else is doing, it's OK
to hit them. The bullying child needs support, supervision, and mentoring,
whilst being helped to understand that violence is not acceptable. If the
bullying child refuses to respond positively, then an escalating response is
appropriate, including ultimately the removal of the child from the class in
order to protect the rights of the majority of children who do choose to
conform to the required social norms.
The education system is still one where aggression
and violence are dominant. The popular students tend to be the jocks, those
with sporting prowess, especially in those activities which require physical
strength. In classes, the most aggressive pupil tends to be the one around who
all others cluster. Aggression rules. Those children who are non-violent, not
physically strong, or physically small, are always vulnerable; their needs are
often overlooked, as are their talents. It's the non-violent children who will
go on to make the biggest contribution to society.
School environments tend to be one of
"exclusion" rather than "inclusion". Children are left to
form their own groups, or gangs, and you are either "in" or
"out". I believe children should be taught at the outset to show
dignity and respect to other children regardless of whether they are
"in" or "out", and to be proactive in their relationships
to other children, especially those who "do not fit in", for whatever
reason. Conformity is high in the list of children's priorities, and rejection,
for whatever reason, is particularly painful. Sadly, many children do not learn
the best interaction skills at home, and this is where schools can make a big
difference.
Much good work has been done on
addressing bullying in schools, but much remains to be done. Research shows
that at least 50% of children will be bullied at school. The incidence is
probably much higher. Bullying prevents children from undertaking their studies
and results in grades which are lower than they would otherwise be which means
that the school appears lower down the league tables than they otherwise would.
If a child learns how to bully, and
gets away with it, there's a lot of anecdotal evidence to suggest they leave
school and carry on their bullying in the workplace. This web site is the
result.
So who's responsible?
I think it's important not to
immediately blame individuals. And especially not teachers. There are a few
bullying teachers (it's surprising how often these get promoted to positions of
management), but most teachers are hard-working individuals who dedicate their
lives to educating the next generation. The problem, as so often, lies further
up the management chain.
We all have a collective
responsibility, and bullying is the result of a number of factors. I believe
the way forward is to identify all the factors and especially the
causes, then begin to modify our education system so that in 25 or 50 years
time, bullying is no longer a problem. There are no quick fixes, by the way,
although change, if properly implemented - and resourced and funded (smirk) -
will start to bring dividends inside a year or two.
Bully OnLine provides unique
insight into bullying and explores the profile of the serial bully. Everyone, I
believe, has experience of at least one person in their life with the profile
of the serial bully. It may be at home with a violent partner or family member,
or at work with an aggressive co-worker or boss, or with an aggressive
neighbor, or at school with the school bully. Living or working with a serial
bully can drive you mad. Click here to see who you
know with this behavior profile.
2.2 EFFECTS
OF BULLYING IN SCHOOL
The Effects of
Bullying in School
updated: October 17, 2009
Bullying can cause severe emotional damage for years, and the
children who are bullied aren't the only ones who suffer. The bullies also
undergo serious emotional trauma, which in turn causes them to bully other
children.
Emotional Trauma
According to the National Center
for Children Exposed to Violence, children who are bullied may suffer from low
self-esteem, as well as other serious emotional issues such as chronic anxiety
and depression. (See Reference 1)
Academic Achievement
Bullying may keep kids from
succeeding in school.
Their anxiety, or other emotional issues caused by bullying, may make it
impossible for them to concentrate on their studies or to succeed at
extracurricular activities.
Hostile Environment
Bullying creates a hostile school
environment, which may affect even children who are not directly bullied, who
may fear being bullied and become distracted from their studies and other
pursuits.
Effects on Bullies
Bullies are likely to become
violent, drop out of school, or get into other serious trouble as adults. (See
Reference 1) They need help as much as the children being bullied---and often,
they are the victims of bullies as well, such as an abusive parent.
Bullying as Adults
Adults who bullied others as
children may continue bullying their peers as adults. This can be a problem in
the workplace for many people, particularly because adults' concerns about
being bullied are not always taken seriously. (See Reference 2)
Environmental Effects
The general atmosphere of
the school become negative if even a relatively small number of students are
being bullied. This negativity also emanates from the bullies themselves. They
create an environment of intimidation in order to establish control.
Community Effects
Bullied children might
seek to retaliate when school is over. This brings the conflict into the
community, which can involve family members and peers, not to mention the police. This is also a
cyclical problem because the conflict in the community may be continued during
school hours.
Societal Effects
Children who bully have a
greater chance of becoming violent adults who use intimidation to control
others. The victims of bullying might tend to seek revenge by violent means.
Either way, bullying affects society at large as children enter adulthood with negative coping
behaviors.
Physical Effects
Bruises, scratches and
scars can mean your child is being bullied. Aside from the normal bumps and
scrapes that young children get from playing, excessive marks should be investigated.
Also, a loss of appetite or sleep is common as a result of the fear and anxiety
that bullying causes
Effect on Relationship with
Parents
The relationship between a parent and child may be strained because of the child's
hostility towards school. For instance, a child may blame his parent for
forcing him to go. He may also begin asking you for more allowance and lunch
funds money if the bully is demanding money from him.
Effect on Friendships
A child may isolate himself or develop a general distrust of people. He
may also seek revenge on his bully or feel justified in attacking other
children to relieve stress or anxiety.
2.3 WAYS
TO REDUCE BULLYING IN SCHOOL
School bullying
From
Wikipedia, the free encyclopaedia
Bullying
is detrimental to students’ well-being and development.
School
bullying
is a type of bullying that occurs in connection
with education, either inside or outside of school. Bullying can be physical, verbal, or emotional and is usually repeated
over a period of time.[1][2]Many educational institutions have implemented anti-bullying campaigns. Studies in Norway and England confirm these programs can be effective. The programs usually focus on increasing awareness and supervision, establishing clear rules, and providing support and protection for victims.
Types of school
bullying
Physical
bullying
Some
states of the United States have implemented laws to address school bullying. Law
prohibits bullying of students based on sexual orientation and gender identity.
Law prohibits bullying of students based on sexual orientation. School
regulation or ethical code for teachers that address bullying of students based
on sexual orientation. Law prohibits bullying in school but lists no categories
of protection. No statewide law that specifically prohibits bullying in schools
Examples
of physical bullying include:[1]- causing
physical injuries
- stealing
- punching
- shoving
- slapping
- debagging
- wedgies
- attacking
- school pranks
- teasing and abusing
- fighting
Emotional bullying
Examples
of emotional bullying include:[1]- spreading
malicious rumors
about people
- keeping
certain people out of a "group"
- getting
certain people to "gang up" on others (It also could be
considered physical bullying)
- ignoring
people on purpose - the silent
treatment
- harassment
- provocation
- whispering
to another in front of someone - whispering campaign
- keeping
secrets away from a so-called friend
Verbal
bullying
Examples
of verbal bullying:- directing
foul language (profanity) at
the target
- name
calling
- commenting
negatively on someone's looks, clothes, body etc - personal
abuse
- tormenting
- harassment
Cyber-bullying
Cyber-bullying
occurs when someone bullies through the Internet, mobile phones or other
electronic means.[1] Examples include:- sending
mean spirited text, e-mail, or instant messages.
- posting
inappropriate pictures or messages about others in blogs or on web sites
- using
someone else's user name to spread rumors or lies about someone.
Sexual
bullying
Sexual
bullying is "any bullying behaviour, whether physical or non-physical,
that is based on a person’s sexuality or gender. It is when sexuality or gender
is used as a weapon by boys or girls towards other boys or girls - although it
is more commonly directed at girls. It can be carried out to a person’s face,
behind their back or through the use of technology."[3]As part of its research into sexual bullying in schools, the BBC Panorama programme commissioned a questionnaire aimed at young people aged 11-19 years in schools and youth clubs across five regions of England.[4] The survey revealed that of the 273 young people who responded to the questionnaire, 28 had been forced to do something sexual and 31 had seen it happen to someone else. Of the 273 respondents, 40 had experienced unwanted touching.[5] UK Government figures show that in school year 2007/8 there were 3,450 fixed period exclusions and 120 expulsions from schools in England due to sexual misconduct.[6] This includes incidents such as groping and using sexually insulting language. From April 2008 to March 2009, ChildLine counselled a total of 156,729 children. Of these, 26,134 children spoke about bullying as a main concern and 300 of these talked specifically about sexual bullying.[3]
Some people including the UK charity Beatbullying have claimed that children are being bullied into providing ‘sexual favours’ in exchange for protection as gang culture enters inner city schools,[7] however other anti-bullying groups and teachers' unions including the National Union of Teachers challenged the charity to provide evidence of this as they had no evidence that this sort of behaviour was happening in schools.[7]
School shooting
School
shootings have focused attention on student bullying, with shooters in several
of the worst shootings reporting they were bullied.
Who bullies
One
student or a group can bully another student or a group of students. Bystanders
may participate or watch, sometimes out of fear of becoming the next victim.
However, there is some research suggesting that a significant proportion of
"normal" school children may not evaluate school-based violence
(student-on-student victimization) as negatively or as being unacceptable as much
as adults generally do, and may even derive enjoyment from it, and they may
thus not see a reason to prevent it if it brings them joy on some level.[8]Bullying can also be perpetrated by teachers and the school system itself: there is an inherent power differential in the system that can easily predispose to subtle or covert abuse, humiliation, or exclusion - even while maintaining overt commitments to anti-bullying policies.[9][10][11]
Strategies to cope with
bullying- Helping
victims at school
Many
of the responsibilities of members of a school team are that they need to help
the victims of bullying.[12] The following strategies
may be considered:- Speak
with the victim and ask them if they want to do anything about it, if they
refuse take your part and start investigating.
- After
investigating the situation, it may be that intervention is necessary with
the bully or bullies. The situation needs to be addressed. Ideally, a
resolution to the problem will be found.
- Inform
the parents of the victim and of the bully. Discuss possible solutions
with them. Arrange a meeting with them if possible.
- Follow
up in communicating with the victim, the parents and the teachers about
the situation.
- Monitor
the behavior of the bully and the safety of the victim on a school-wide
basis.
- If
the problem continues speak with the parents of the bully again and
consider the idea of expulsion of the bully if problems continue, bullies
normally attack not only one child but more of one, and normally 3 to 4
children are the attackers, find out exactly who they are.
- Finally
you should decide for yourself the punishment, it depends on how they
attacked the children, how many they have been attacking, since when has
it been a problem, etc.
Strategies to reduce
bullying within schools
Researchers
(Olweus, 1993;[13] Craig & Peplar, 1999;[14] Ross, 1998;[15] Morrison, 2002;[16] Whitted & Dupper,
2005;[17] Aynsley-Green, 2006;[18]) provide several
strategies which address ways to help reduce bullying, these include:- Make
sure an adult knows what is happening to their children.
- Actually
enforce anti bully laws.
- Make
it clear that bullying is never acceptable.
- Recognise
that bullying can occur at all levels within the hierarchy of the school
(i.e., including adults).
- Hold
a school conference day or forum devoted to bully/victim problems.
- Increase
adult supervision in the yard, halls and washrooms more vigilantly.
- Emphasize
caring, respect and safety.
- Emphasize
consequences of hurting others.
- Enforce
consistent and immediate consequences for aggressive behaviors.
- Improve
communication among school administrators, teachers, parents and students.
- Have
a school problem box where kids can report problems, concerns and offer
suggestions.
- Teach
cooperative learning activities.
- Help
bullies with anger control and the development of empathy.
- Encourage
positive peer relations.
- Offer
a variety of extracurricular activities which appeal to a range of
interests
- Teach
your child to defend himself or herself, verbally and physically, if
necessary.
- Keep
in mind the range of possible causes: e.g., medical, psychiatric,
psychological, developmental, family problems, etc.
- If
problems continue in your school, press harassment charges against the
family of the person who is bullying you.
4.0 ESSAY
Bullying is defines as an aggressive
behavior that is persistent,
intentional, and involves an imbalance of power
or strength. There are four kinds
of bullying, that is physical, emotional, verbal and cyber bullying. In colloquial speech, bullying is most often used
to describe a form of harassment associated with being performed by a child who
is older, stronger, or otherwise more powerful socially, upon weaker peers. School
bullying is a type of bullying that occurs in connection with education, either
inside or outside of school. Recently there's been much
increased awareness of bullying in
schools and whilst it may appear that bullying is on the increase.
ARTICLE
1 – CAUSES OF BULLYING IN SCHOOL
Bullying
is when someone repeatedly acts or says things to have power over another
person. Bullies mainly use a combination of intimidation and humiliation to torment
others. According to the first article that I choose, I find out that there are some causes of bullying in school. Bullying
is not a new problem, but it is gaining more attention as episodes of school
violence are increasing. The causes of bullying is desire for attention showed that children who do not get attention or
emotional support at home
may try to get noticed even in
negative way by humiliating someone
else. Bullying in school also causes by a cycle of abuse that is some children
are only repeating behaviours they witness at home. The child is being abused and is
expressing their anger through bullying.
Other than that, bullying in school also caused by
influence of media that
encourage and even
praise violent behaviour as a means to assert oneself. Taken out of context,
a trouble child may use these examples as ways of being aggressive to gain
popularity with peers. Besides that, gang membership also becomes a factor of
bullying in school. Gang memberships often use threats and intimidation to
initiate new recruits and continue to use these methods to deal with opposing
gangs. In addtion, undue influence also causes a bullying in school while
the child has fallen in with the wrong crowd and so on.
ARTICLE 2 – EFFECTS OF BULLYING IN SCHOOL
Bullying can leave some effects on the individual
who being a victim of bullying.
According to the second article that I choose by Valerie Martin, I find out some of effects of bullying
in school. That one of the most
profound impacts of bullying is its effect on a child's self-esteem. Bullying
can lead to feelings of worthlessness and depression, which can interfere with
schoolwork. When a child’s is worrying about bullying, it may make difficult
for them to concentrate on necessary tasks and impossible for them to concentrate on their
studies or to succeed at extracurricular activities. Deficits in
academic performance can easily occur when bullying victims succumb to
depression or otherwise become demoralized.
They certainly also occur when victims ditch school to avoid bullies. Besides that, bullying in school causing a physical harm to children who become a victim of bullying such
as bruising, scrapes, cuts and damaged clothing. Bullies may also attempt to steal or destroy
objects of value, such as electronics
or money. While,
effects to bullies are likely to become violent, drop out of school, or get
into other serious trouble as adults. Bullies also become a disrespect
for teachers. In addition, bullying also creates a hostile school environment, which may
effect even children who are not directly bullied, who may fear being bullied and become
distracted from their studies and other pursuits. Therefore,
bullying also causing legal action, against the school or education
authority and against the bully's family. Bullying also damaged relationship between parents and child that may be
strained because of the child's hostility towards
school. A child may blame his parent for forcing him to go and may also begin asking for more
allowance and lunch funds money if the bully is demanding money from him. A child also may isolate himself or develop a general
distrust of people. A child may also seek revenge on his bully or feel justified in attacking other children to
relieve stress or anxiety.
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